Do the personalities outside of this forum really matter when it comes to posting responses??? if they choose to be complete a-holes on the forum, what does it matter if they are the nicest guy in person? No one would want to meet them in person other than to kick the living crap out of them. The thing about forums and such is that it allows you to be anonymous / different from your daily life but if you chose to be a peckerhead here, no one cares how you are off the forum.